13 Signs That You Are in Depression

Aura Refined
6 min readOct 6, 2024

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Depression is more than just a bad day or the blues; it’s a serious mental illness that affects millions worldwide. If left unaddressed, it can lead to daily dislocations in relationships, work life, and the overall well-being of individuals affected. It is for this reason that recognition of the signs of depression will lead to help and recovery. This article provides the general symptoms of depression, helping you understand what you should be looking for if you or someone you know might be struggling.

13 Signs That You Are in Depression

1. Persistent Feelings of Sadness or Emptiness

One of the classic symptoms of depression is an extended feeling of sadness, hopelessness, or emptiness that does not resolve. Since this low mood does not resolve easily, it can last weeks, months, or even years. It feels like some heavy cloud hangs over you and cannot be shaken off.

2. Loss of Interest in Daily Activities

You find that you lack interest and it brings no joy to things that you once enjoyed doing. In most cases, these changes are termed as anhedonia, and it continues even as far as hobbies or even socialization. If you’ve felt you’re uninterested in things you once loved, whether playing your favorite sport, hanging out with friends, or listening to your favorite music, it could be a sign of depression.

3. Changes in Appetite and Weight

Depressive disorders also make a person alter his or her eating habits. For some, decreased appetite often manifests with unintentional loss of weight, whereas others may start to eat more-calorie-dense foods, such as “comfort foods,” and gain unnecessary weight. If your new onset changes in appetite or weight occur out of the blue, this may indicate depression.

4. Sleep Disturbances

Another classic symptom of depression is sleep disturbances. In this, it would be insomnia, which is not being able to fall asleep or even stay asleep, while it could also be hypersomnia, which means having too much daytime sleepiness. People with depression tend to sometimes have trouble sleeping or wake up frequently during the night, or even just sleep the whole day, but even so, they are still tired after waking up.

5. Lack of Energy and Fatigue

Typical people with depression would describe feelings of extreme tiredness and low energy. These are put in the perspective of something incredibly, enthusiastically energetic, such as a light activity like getting out of bed or taking a bath, as a tremendous and forbidding burden instead. Not only is this kind of tiredness physical but also mental since it becomes difficult to be interested in one thing or even decide to do something at times. If you have been feeling drained for quite some time and simple tasks are impossible, then perhaps it is depression.

6. Trouble Concentration or Even Deciding

Depression makes it hard for an individual to concentrate, remember things, and even focus on various conversations. For example, you may find yourself in the middle of a conversation but tune out and forget what was under discussion. You may sometimes find yourself rereading the same passage in a book over and over. Such a problem may therefore extend to decision-making, as indecision and self-doubt can easily drive your train of thought. If your mental clarity is affected, then you are most probably dealing with depression.

7. Guilt or Worthlessness

The depressed person usually feels guilty or worthless. They punish themselves for things they think went wrong or were mistakes on their part even if no one else agrees. Such criticisms lead to a distorted self-concept and an inability to let go of inadequacy.

8. Physical Symptoms

Depression is not a mental problem but can affect the body as well. Common symptoms include headache; indigestion; and sore muscles to name a few. Some experience symptoms that cannot be traced back to medical causes and cannot be driven away even when the physical condition improves.

9. Irritability or Mood Swings

While melancholy is somewhat of an intuitive symptom of depression, it can also lead to irritability and mood swings. If you catch yourself becoming outrageously short-tempered, easily annoyed over the smallest nuisance, or have sudden outbursts, it might be a signal that you are struggling with depression. This irritability can cause issues with family, friends, and colleagues, thus piling on even more emotional pressure.

10. Social Withdrawal

Another symptom is social withdrawal. Avoiding some social activities, canceling plans, or missing hangs with loved ones is a typical symptom of depression. Depression often makes even small interactions in the social sphere look so imposing that being around other people can cause anxiety or just discomfort. If you retreat more often from friends and family, that’s a sign of depression.

11. Increased Use of Substances

Deep feelings of hopelessness or despair can lead some depressed persons to seek avenues for the problems in substances like alcohol or drugs. While this may give relief to them for a short period, substance abuse may worsen depressive symptoms and even to addiction. If you increasingly rely on substances in order to go about your daily activities, recognize it as a sign of a bigger problem and seek help.

12. Pessimism and Negative Thinking

Depression may change the way you see life in general, and you might begin to think that things will always be terrible. You may live day-to-day in constant dread of expecting that worst-case scenario each time a situation arises. Negative thought patterns like catastrophizing or assuming the worst are another common characteristic of depression that prevents you from seeing hope or a solution.

13. Thoughts of Death or Suicide

One of the most serious symptoms of depression is thoughts of death or suicide. They can be passive-passive, for instance, wishing you were dead again-or active: planning or trying suicide. If you are having such thoughts, you should find help immediately. Call an experienced friend, a family member, or a mental health professional. Remember that depression is curable; you do not have to face the darkness alone.

How to Seek Depression Help

The following are the steps to follow when you or someone close to you shows some or all of these characteristics. First, seek help.

Reach out: Talk to friends, family, or a mental health professional. Sometimes, just expressing your thoughts can make a difference.

You can find professional help to diagnose and treat depression from a licensed therapist or psychiatrist. Any of the therapies is very effective in treating depression example, CBT.

Medications: Sometimes, you might need to take antidepressants. These medications help level out chemicals within your brain and calm down those depressive feelings.

Lifestyle Changes: Exercise, a healthy diet, and proper sleep are all important to handle depression. Though not easy to do so when you are low, even small steps might make a huge difference.

Self-care: Do whatever makes you feel good. Cultivate mindfulness and allow time for relaxation. Self-care can help reduce one’s stress levels and boost one’s mood.

Avoid Substances: Alcohol and drugs may make depression worse and prevent you from getting better. If you use these substances, think about getting help to stop or reduce use.

Conclusion

Depression is potentially a serious but also significantly treatable mental illness. Identifying symptoms of depression is the first step towards recovery. If you feel sad for more than two weeks, appetite changes, low energy, or social withdrawal, know that there is help for you. You need not be hesitant about seeking the guidance of mental health professionals in your process of change. Once you have acknowledged the symptoms, you can begin to overcome depression and start on your journey to a healthier and happier life.

If you or someone you know is having thoughts of suicide, help is available now: within the U.S. call 1–800–273-TALK, and your location will be identified. You can also text the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 73939 using any preferred method to send the Crisis and Next Day texts. You are not alone, and there’s always hope for recovery.

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